the child calmer designed to help with...
what's included


indicator
When the correct level of air pressure is blown into the breathing tube, the ball will rise in the indicator. It will remain airborne for as long as you exhale, allowing for visual concentration on the elevated ball.
"webe in this together" bracelets
The most pivotal moment for fostering a strong bond between kids and parents is when they work together. Each webe kälm set contains a child-sized and adult-sized L/XL bracelet. These bracelets serve as a constant reminder to find a more constructive approach during moments of frustration.
breathe tube
The ergonomically designed breathe tube enables restful lips to breathe effortlessly into the webe kälm. Insert the indicaot into the breathe tube to observe the visual effects of slow exhalation and listen to the soothing white noise. For a more discreet experience, the Indicator can be used optionally.
storage on the go
Keep your webe kälm clean and protected by removing the indicator from the breathe tube, placing them in the storage bag, and securing the cords. This allows you to easily carry your webe kälm in a school bag, purse, glove box, or stored in the junk drawer.
"This miracle tool changed my failing approach to fits. Not only does it give our children the power to self-regulate, but it gives me the power to finally do something effective!"
I wish I had found this years ago. My approach with my children is now both collaborative and engaging. I watch my children go from hyperventilating to calm in less than a minute. It's incredible.
I literally watched my 11 year old go from unconsolable to having a healthy conversation about her feelings in 30 seconds. I can't believe it.
This has changed my relationship with my daughter for the better. I only wish I remembered to use it when I'm angry to calm myself!

Imagine your body as a car with different modes. The parasympathetic nervous system is the "slow down and relax" mode. When you're active and playing, it's in the "go fast" mode (the sympathetic nervous system). But when it's time to rest, sleep, or eat, it switches to "slow down and relax."
In this mode, your heart beats slower, your body helps with digestion, and it's similar to a cozy nap for your insides. It's the part that helps you feel calm and balanced after being busy or a little scared. So, the parasympathetic nervous system is the relaxing mode for your body, ensuring you feel good and balanced inside.

Breathing slowly and exhaling through the mouthpiece has an immediate calming effect. Studies have shown that this technique enhances flexibility in the autonomic, cerebral, and psychological aspects of our body.
It's linked to parasympathetic activity, which helps control emotions and overall well-being. This technique increases Heart Rate Variability and Respiratory Sinus Arrhythmia, with changes in Central Nervous System activity. EEG studies show increased alpha power and reduced theta power. Additionally, MRI studies reveal increased activity in various brain structures, leading to increased comfort, relaxation, pleasantness, vigor, and alertness, while reducing symptoms of anxiety, depression, anger, and confusion.

When we practice focused attention with webe kälm, it helps us stay calm when things get tough and makes us better at handling problems.
Imagine it like playing a game where you keep a ball in the air. This game helps our minds stay focused and not get too upset. Scientists found that when we play this game, our brains work better. The part of our brain that helps us control our feelings gets stronger, and the part that makes us feel really upset gets quieter. This helps train our brains to be strong and calm, which helps us when we face things that make us feel unhappy.

When you use webe kälm and breathe out, it makes a soothing, calming sound we call "white noise." It's similar to the gentle sounds babies hear when they're in their mommies' tummies.
These familiar sounds can help kids feel relaxed and sleep better. It's like having a friend that helps you feel calm and sleep well.

Fostering a collective sense of calmness within our community is the ultimate objective. It's vital for adults to actively participate in assisting children, rather than simply substituting "calm down" with "go use your webe!"
- wee (age 3-8): This is particularly important for young children who require guidance and cooperation from adults. It's helpful to let them know that you also need moments of calm and by counting seconds while they use webe kälm creates connection. They appreciate knowing you're invested in the process.
- Tween (age 9-12): There's often a snarky response when asked to calm down, "I am calm!" It no longer needs to be a contentious battle of "you vs. them" to determine calmness. webe kälm provides feedback to help tweens gauge their state of calm. If they are calm, they can exhale slowly and keep the ball aloft. If they're not, the feedback can help prevent a tense situation from escalating into an argument.
- teen (age 13+): In the teenage years, where self-awareness is burgeoning, webe kälm offers feedback to determine if they are balanced and calm or if they need to regain balance. They can use webe kälm with or without the indicator discreetly during moments when they prefer not to draw attention.
Imagine your body as a car with different modes. The parasympathetic nervous system is the "slow down and relax" mode. When you're active and playing, it's in the "go fast" mode (the sympathetic nervous system). But when it's time to rest, sleep, or eat, it switches to "slow down and relax."
In this mode, your heart beats slower, your body helps with digestion, and it's similar to a cozy nap for your insides. It's the part that helps you feel calm and balanced after being busy or a little scared. So, the parasympathetic nervous system is the relaxing mode for your body, ensuring you feel good and balanced inside.
Breathing slowly and exhaling through the mouthpiece has an immediate calming effect. Studies have shown that this technique enhances flexibility in the autonomic, cerebral, and psychological aspects of our body.
It's linked to parasympathetic activity, which helps control emotions and overall well-being. This technique increases Heart Rate Variability and Respiratory Sinus Arrhythmia, with changes in Central Nervous System activity. EEG studies show increased alpha power and reduced theta power. Additionally, MRI studies reveal increased activity in various brain structures, leading to increased comfort, relaxation, pleasantness, vigor, and alertness, while reducing symptoms of anxiety, depression, anger, and confusion.
When we practice focused attention with webe kälm, it helps us stay calm when things get tough and makes us better at handling problems.
Imagine it like playing a game where you keep a ball in the air. This game helps our minds stay focused and not get too upset. Scientists found that when we play this game, our brains work better. The part of our brain that helps us control our feelings gets stronger, and the part that makes us feel really upset gets quieter. This helps train our brains to be strong and calm, which helps us when we face things that make us feel unhappy.
When you use webe kälm and breathe out, it makes a soothing, calming sound we call "white noise." It's similar to the gentle sounds babies hear when they're in their mommies' tummies.
These familiar sounds can help kids feel relaxed and sleep better. It's like having a friend that helps you feel calm and sleep well.
Fostering a collective sense of calmness within our community is the ultimate objective. It's vital for adults to actively participate in assisting children, rather than simply substituting "calm down" with "go use your webe!"
- wee (age 3-8): This is particularly important for young children who require guidance and cooperation from adults. It's helpful to let them know that you also need moments of calm and by counting seconds while they use webe kälm creates connection. They appreciate knowing you're invested in the process.
- Tween (age 9-12): There's often a snarky response when asked to calm down, "I am calm!" It no longer needs to be a contentious battle of "you vs. them" to determine calmness. webe kälm provides feedback to help tweens gauge their state of calm. If they are calm, they can exhale slowly and keep the ball aloft. If they're not, the feedback can help prevent a tense situation from escalating into an argument.
- teen (age 13+): In the teenage years, where self-awareness is burgeoning, webe kälm offers feedback to determine if they are balanced and calm or if they need to regain balance. They can use webe kälm with or without the indicator discreetly during moments when they prefer not to draw attention.





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How does webe kälm work?
webe kälm is grounded in generations of scientific research. Our innovation is a simplified process that harnesses the activation of the parasympathetic nervous system in a single tool. For a more in-depth exploration of the science behind webe kälm, you'll find a comprehensive read here.
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